Dont say this word to the children
Having children is certainly a special gift, Bun. But the matter of taking care of children, clearly has its own challenges. Because in reality, educating children is not easy and cannot be underestimated. Parents can be angry and unwittingly come out the forbidden sentence from the parent's verbal.
Even though Bun, as a parent, Mother must be wiser in speaking. Don't get angry or annoyed at the child. There are several sentences that are truly abstinence to be pronounced in front of the child. This is because the impact is not good for the child when he can digest the sentence that Mother said.
"DO NOT CRY! YOU ARE A CHILDREN DON'T BE HARD, "
Isn't crying a normal thing for young children to do? Bun, crying is a powerful way that is usually done by children to channel emotions and feelings whether it's when afraid, anxious or sad. If Mother actually says "Don't cry" and other similar sentences,
Forbidding her not to cry will only make her think that crying is unnatural and inappropriate. It would be better if Mom asked the child to explain the emotions she felt.
Say, "How are you feeling right now, son?" That way, Mother indirectly taught her attitude of sympathy and empathy. Children also can be honest about their feelings for themselves.
"IT'S NOTHING SO, THE LARGE OFFICES HERE ARE WORKING,"
This sentence often comes out when the child's performance is not in accordance with the wishes of Mother as a parent. For example, when asking to fold a paper, but the results are not in line with expectations, such sentences must have been said either consciously or unconsciously. Though Bun, the effect, the sentence turned out to be able to inhibit the development of children to be more active in doing something.
Simply put, children will feel afraid of being wrong and insecure when doing a job. So, it is far better if you allow your baby to do work together while explaining how to do it properly and correctly. Working together together can actually help children to understand and grow with high self-esteem.
"YOU'RE RIGHT ONCE A CHILD,"
Mother needs to remember, children will easily absorb the words spoken by parents and their environment. So, don't be surprised if you often say bad words like, naughty, fat, or stupid, gradually the child will also develop and often say what you say.
It is far better if you change these negative words into sentences that give positive energy. For example, "If you are diligent in learning you will understand many things, you are a smart child," or Mother can also explain, what is the benefit of being a smart person. That way, children will feel more excited and motivated.
"AGAIN AGAIN, DO NOT DISTURB IT,"
When Mother is busy, avoid telling her that Mother doesn't want to be disturbed. Bun, be careful, your little one can feel that his presence doesn't mean anything to you. Children can also feel wasted and as if they are considered unwanted. This is very dangerous for a child's mental development.
Sometimes parents distract children by giving online games or giving smartphones to keep their children busy. Even though such a thing is not a solution. The best step you can do is to distract them with positive activities. Avoid giving your smartphone first without supervision.
"ONCE YOU WAS CAN DO THIS, YOU CAN'T?"
Have you ever thought that comparing a child with his sister or his peers would have a bad impact on his future. Children will grow up feeling inferior and inferior. In addition, when adults, children will also try to behave like other people. Therefore, even though it may be different or he feels difficult doing something else, then just leave Bun. Much better if the child grows up as himself.
Even though Bun, as a parent, Mother must be wiser in speaking. Don't get angry or annoyed at the child. There are several sentences that are truly abstinence to be pronounced in front of the child. This is because the impact is not good for the child when he can digest the sentence that Mother said.
"DO NOT CRY! YOU ARE A CHILDREN DON'T BE HARD, "
Isn't crying a normal thing for young children to do? Bun, crying is a powerful way that is usually done by children to channel emotions and feelings whether it's when afraid, anxious or sad. If Mother actually says "Don't cry" and other similar sentences,
Forbidding her not to cry will only make her think that crying is unnatural and inappropriate. It would be better if Mom asked the child to explain the emotions she felt.
Say, "How are you feeling right now, son?" That way, Mother indirectly taught her attitude of sympathy and empathy. Children also can be honest about their feelings for themselves.
"IT'S NOTHING SO, THE LARGE OFFICES HERE ARE WORKING,"
This sentence often comes out when the child's performance is not in accordance with the wishes of Mother as a parent. For example, when asking to fold a paper, but the results are not in line with expectations, such sentences must have been said either consciously or unconsciously. Though Bun, the effect, the sentence turned out to be able to inhibit the development of children to be more active in doing something.
Simply put, children will feel afraid of being wrong and insecure when doing a job. So, it is far better if you allow your baby to do work together while explaining how to do it properly and correctly. Working together together can actually help children to understand and grow with high self-esteem.
"YOU'RE RIGHT ONCE A CHILD,"
Mother needs to remember, children will easily absorb the words spoken by parents and their environment. So, don't be surprised if you often say bad words like, naughty, fat, or stupid, gradually the child will also develop and often say what you say.
It is far better if you change these negative words into sentences that give positive energy. For example, "If you are diligent in learning you will understand many things, you are a smart child," or Mother can also explain, what is the benefit of being a smart person. That way, children will feel more excited and motivated.
"AGAIN AGAIN, DO NOT DISTURB IT,"
When Mother is busy, avoid telling her that Mother doesn't want to be disturbed. Bun, be careful, your little one can feel that his presence doesn't mean anything to you. Children can also feel wasted and as if they are considered unwanted. This is very dangerous for a child's mental development.
Sometimes parents distract children by giving online games or giving smartphones to keep their children busy. Even though such a thing is not a solution. The best step you can do is to distract them with positive activities. Avoid giving your smartphone first without supervision.
"ONCE YOU WAS CAN DO THIS, YOU CAN'T?"
Have you ever thought that comparing a child with his sister or his peers would have a bad impact on his future. Children will grow up feeling inferior and inferior. In addition, when adults, children will also try to behave like other people. Therefore, even though it may be different or he feels difficult doing something else, then just leave Bun. Much better if the child grows up as himself.
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